In midlife, many of us are settled into a routine. We have the same job that we've had for years, we live with the same partner, we buy the same brands at the supermarket every week, We're probably quite conservative when it comes to change. This may be absolutely right for many people. It could be completely wrong for others. If you aren't happy in your job, or your relationship, why do you stay? Why are you wasting so many hours of your life?