Once upon a time, my goal was to lead a life that was completely criticism-proof. Once I had the "right" job, credentials, relationship, and so on, no one would ever accuse me of falling short in any area. I'd get nothing but respect from everyone I worked with and knew. Of course, this plan didn't quite pan out. As wonderful as my job and education may have looked to the world, and as hard as I worked, there would always be someone who'd come up with ways to find fault with me - whether it was a client, boss, intimate partner, or someone else.
